In order for a reading to be as pleasant as possible and provide the best results, it is important to not only be straightforward and open with yourself but also with your counselor. If this is able to occur, then you can permit the reader to see beneath the surface and you will get so much more out of the experience.
To be open means that you are hearing the psychic’s words and taking in their meaning regardless of whether or not they are saying what you were expecting or hoping they would say.
Psychics may have difficulty in telling people things they aren’t willing or wanting to hear, and if they have closed themselves off from hearing the truth, then they could be given an incorrect reading or reading may become misinterpreted. The blockage created by the closed person can disrupt the flow of energy and information.
To be honest is to ask questions that are to the point and not circumventing the real issue. It also means to respond to the psychic with honest answers. You cannot try to deceive the psychic or have doubt that the psychic will be able to read you well. Some people will answer very general questions, such as ones about their hair color or address, when speaking to the psychic to try to test them. This can throw off their entire reading.
By being deceptive with answers and questions, this creates a block that the psychic may have a hard time getting around. The psychic may get a feeling that the person is lying but be hesitant to confront them about it.
Psychics can often detect when a barrier is present. They may react in adverse ways when they sense a barrier there, and they are unlikely to go where it is clear they are not being welcomed. Psychics know not to violate a person’s privacy and they will respect the boundaries people have placed for themselves, but those boundaries can prevent an accurate and fulfilling reading.
Psychics do their best to provide you with information that is accurate, and it will help them to trust what they give you. If you can manage to give them that trust, they will be able to open you up further and get in touch with the information they need to pass on to you more easily and with more clarity.
By being open and honest with the psychic, and by trusting their reading, that does not mean you believe they are incapable of error.
It also doesn’t mean that you are going to do what they tell you to or make decisions based on the information they discovered.
Psychics work with your own decision making process, complementing it instead of directing your life.
You are certainly within your own power still when you receive and accept a psychic reading. You should think of the psychic as a trusted advisory instead of someone who knows everything and who commands your life and its direction. You might find it easy to give over control of your life to someone during times of emotional distress, but if you can retain that control as you experience the reading, it will help you to make better decisions. You will be better able to achieve the goals you have set for yourself and turn your life in the direction you want it to be.
A psychic may ask you questions about your relationships. Not everyone wants to hear bad tidings about their relationships and how some of them may not work out very well. Instead of focusing on negative outcomes, however, that may happen with your current relationships, you can ask the psychic what you should be doing to draw in the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with.
This may mean making some changes to the way you live or the kind of person you have become. In other cases, it can just mean letting go of something that isn’t helping you.
However it works out, be sure that you are still under your own power and that you are combining that with an open and honest conversation with the psychic. This will create the best possible experience for you and give you the most desirable results.
The reader will do everything in their power to determine what your needs are in your current situation and give you the most apt advice to get through it successfully and to get the things that you deserve.
Doing these things ensures that your reading is as accurate as possible and that the questions you are asking will be able to elicit the kinds of answers that will really help you.
It definitely helps to have your questions prepared beforehand. You can ensure they are worded the way you want and that they are direct and straightforward. If the questions are detailed, the psychic will be able to help you achieve what you are hoping to faster and easier.