Like everyone I used to struggle with the question, “why do bad things happen to good people?” It is difficult to make sense of a world where horribly tragic things happen to decent people. Many people question, “why is God allowing this to happen to me? Doesn’t he love me?” It is quite logical to ask those questions when you hear about things like tsunamis killing hundreds of thousands of people or when a young child is diagnosed with terminal cancer.
I have come to fully understand why bad things happen to good people First of all, it is important to understand that the Universe does not view events as being good or being bad. They are neutral. It is us and society that judges an event to be good or bad.
My personal belief is that we incarnate to Earth in order to experience the lower vibrations that we don’t have access to in the afterlife. It is important to understand emotions such as anger, jealousy, and sadness. I believe that we, as souls in the afterlife, choose lessons to be learned prior to coming to Earth.
These lessons may be things like understanding grief or becoming intensely angry. We must be put in situations that allow us to experience these emotions. As a soul you may have chosen your young child to die so that you could experience grief. You may have chosen for your husband to be murdered so that you can better understand anger and forgiveness. You can transform your life if you are able to recognize that our souls choose our life path.
Our main purpose on Earth is to master the lessons that we decided on prior to incarnating. It is important for you to realize that your soul is the one that chose these bad events to take place. Your soul is focused on learning lessons and in order for learning to take place you need to experience the good, the bad, and the ugly.
In some instances the perpetrator (i.e. abuser, drug addict, etc) can in actuality be a soul mate or someone that your soul loves very much. Prior to your incarnation you may have asked the perpetrator to do something heinous just so that you would have the learning experience.
Many perpetrators are reluctant to accept these assignments because they love you so much and do not want to be the cause of pain. In the end they decide to do it because your soul has convinced them of how important it is to learn certain lessons.
Please take some time to think about the people you are angry with and the events in your life that you feel are unfair. Ask yourself what each situation has taught you. How are you a better person because of it?
Have other areas of your life been enriched through this one negative event? Give credit where credit is due. Keep in mind that your soul decided your life plan prior to incarnating. Your soul likely selected all of the major (good and bad) events in your life.
I sincerely hope that each and every one of you is able to see the perfection and value with everything that happens in life. Be grateful for the experiences and the opportunities that arose from those experiences.
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